The most common sexual problem in men is premature
ejaculation, rapid ejaculation, premature climax, early ejaculation, or by the
Latin term ejaculatio praecox. A person is said to suffer from premature ejaculation if he ejaculates before his partner achieves orgasm in more than
fifty percent of his sexual encounters. Premature ejaculation affects 25%-40%
of men. Premature ejaculation is characterised by a lack of voluntary control
over ejaculation.
Sex researchers have defined premature ejaculation as
occurring if the man ejaculates within two minutes or less of penetration. The
definition, however, is not that straightforward. Once thought to be purely
psychological, experts now know that biological factors also play an important
role in premature ejaculation and that in some men; premature ejaculation is
also related to erectile dysfunction. A survey conducted by Doctor Alfred
Kinsey in the 1950s demonstrated that three quarters of men ejaculated within
two minutes of penetration in over half of their sexual encounters. The good
news is that premature ejaculation cures are available everywhere you look, but
making an informed decision is the most important thing when choosing a method
for premature ejaculation. Today, most sexologists understand premature
ejaculation as occurring when a lack of ejaculatory control interferes with
sexual or emotional well-being in one or both partners.
A very simple way to delay premature ejaculation is the squeeze
technique. The squeeze technique involves halting stimulation just before
orgasm. You or your partner places a thumb on the frenulum (the connecting skin
at the tip and right under the head of the penis) and applies pressure to the
head of the penis with the other fingers. Hold the squeeze until the urge to
ejaculate subsides. Then you can go on having sex and repeat the process until
you actually want to ejaculate.
Most of the men suffering from premature ejaculation will
greatly benefit from reducing the stimulation they experience during sex and
there are already a number of creams available on the market to help reducing
premature ejaculation. These creams can partially anaesthetise the penis and
reduce the stimulation that leads to orgasm. Another option is to use one or
more condoms. However, these techniques may interfere with the pleasure
experienced during sex and so defeat the purpose of this technique.
The stop technique for premature ejaculation is very similar
to the squeeze technique because it involves reaching the point of orgasm and
then halting the whole thing. The stop technique requires only that stimulation
stop. Stop technique for premature ejaculation does not need applying of
pressure to any part of penis. After the stimulation has stopped and the urge
to orgasm fades, resume sex and repeat the process. But these techniques take a
good control and concentration to hold back premature ejaculation.
Another thing you can try is erectile dysfunction exercises.
Most men overlook this muscle and never bother to keep it in shape, yet by
learning to control it, you can rid yourself of premature ejaculation and learn
to ejaculate when and only when you want to. These exercises are meant to train
your pubococcygeus muscle, which is the very muscle that controls ejaculation
and urination.
The bottom line that the best way to cure premature
ejaculation is the one that works for you. See a sexologist, try nutritional
supplements or try exercises to gain more control. Aside from being the most frequent
male sexual disorder, premature ejaculation is also the most likely to be
treated in a relatively short period of time and with very little inconvenience
to you or your partner.
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